i was in the middle of my CNY holiday when we went back to our hometown in jasin,melaka. as usual, my mom's grandma memory and emotion still hasn't improved...well, of course i'm not happy with the fact..but what can i do? we tried our best to entertain her, give the best advice regarding her health...and still, she insisted on going to the 'baruh' or some kind of orchard behind her house. no matter how hard we try to stop her, believe me it won't work for my grandma! according to my mak lang, she behaved in such way due to no restriction in her working hours mase zaman 'dolu-dolu'. nak dekat maghrib baru blk dari kebun. she always say that someone will steal all the fruits from the orchard if she didn't go...the problem is, no one has ever broke into the property...another thing she likes to do is closing the door and windows in the middle of a sunny day...when we ask why she did that, it's because someone will enter the house if it's left open...haaaiiii, sometimes i laugh looking at her action...but it makes her feel tired when she kept doing it. masalahnye kalau dibiarkan, gelap sgt lak...sampai my mak lang buat lawak ckp "ni persediaan bawah tanah ke?"
well, this time around she can easily got angry...especially when no one layan her...ayat yg biase; "bukan main lagi ko ni eh!" or "nak mampus agaknye aku nih!". bile dgr die ckp camtu, takut n sedih pon ade... dah ler my grandma ni jenis yang selalu bertanya..now die mmg dah tak ingat langsung sape2 except for my mak lang coz die yg jage my grandma..even anak2 die yg lain pon dah tak ingat..apetah lagi cucu2 die. common questions; "ko ni sape?", "anak sape?", "dah kawin ke belum?", etc. pulak tuh..tak sampai 10min die dah tanye blk soklan yg same..tak ke naye? tapi nak wat cane..layan je la...bkn sape2, nenek sendiri gak.
the point here is, u should love ur parents, grandparents and all the people around u...coz they're everything in this world. sometimes it's sad when some people don't bother to visit their grandparents/parents, juz bcoz they think that these old folks have no use for them. tambah lagi kalau ade long-standing illness like in my grandma's case..lagi la diorg tak peduli..siap ckp "ala, nenek dah camtuh...". it's as if they're wasting a lot of time. what the heck?!! rase nak tenyeh2 je org camni tau! (sabar2...) juz look back, there were some of these old folks who look after u guyz when u were young...susah sgt ke nak menjenguk diorg? pikirla baik2...love them while it's not too late...
